Quote for the night...

‘You can only ever create a false reality if you build it on a foundation of coercion, manipulation and lies.’

- Judi Reed, 2012

Quote for the day...

'Make the object of your affection, yourself, first.'

- Judi Reed, 2012

Thought for the day...

‘I’m too busy dealing with the realities to be able to start talking hypotheticals right now’

- Judi Reed, 2012

Quote of the day...

‘Does he really love you? Yes, he loves some parts of you, but what of all those parts of you he keeps asking you to change? What of all those parts of your character he incessantly, and relentlessly, attacks and criticizes? Is that the definition of love you want to live your life by?’

- Anonymous, 2012.

Opinion of the day...

'I don't like sex toys that look like cocks. Cocks are cocks and toys are toys. Sure they can both do lovely things, but in very different ways.'

- Anonymous, 2012

Quote for the day...

'Sometimes you just need a good old fashioned fuck...'

- Anonymous, 2012

Dilemma of the day....

What do you do when the control switch on one of your favourite vibrators gets stuck, but its not stuck on your favourite setting...?

It's a tricky one...

- Anonymous, 2012

Two paths (poetry)

Yes.

Two.

Suddenly appear

simultaneously

I mean really what are the chances?

Quite good as it appears in my case

I’ve become so accustomed to my barren landscape

It has been my home

I’ve allowed myself to wander

The dunes of my mind

For perhaps too long

Yes, I found

And drank thirstily

At the oasis within myself

On my journey

And it revived me

And it was good

But once revived

Not one path, but two

Suddenly appeared

Each one offers riches to my soul

But in vastly different ways

Each one connects with parts of me

That I want to be touched.

But, in such very different ways

Or perhaps not

Maybe the two paths can converge

Maybe they will meet

Maybe I can have both?

Is that greedy?

Maybe I can have both

Maybe they actually can converge

I hope

Maybe the richness

That that would bring,

Does truly exist

And my trek

Across the barren sands

Has been about

Taking me there

- Judi Reed, 2012

Did you know...

that 'Shakta, one of the three most important mainstream forms of Hinduism, is centered on the belief that the creative power of the universe is embodied in female genitalia.'

(The Story of V: A natural history of female sexuality, Catherine Blackerledge, pp 44)

One more bite? (poetry)

I miss the feel of your skin against mine

The way you used to whisper my name

When we were fucking

I miss the sounds you would make

When I was touching you

Or when you were inside me

And I miss the filthy text conversation

Always a promise of things to come

Made me smile through the day, the perfect foreplay

I miss the conversations we used to share

Intellect against intellect

A different type of stimulation altogether...

I remember when you told me

You couldn’t be with me that way anymore

And I don’t miss the way that made me feel

You showed me the respect of explaining why

Wrong time, space, and place

I understood intellectually, emotionally, that took longer

I know you weren’t just making excuses

And you weren’t just fucking me around

I believe you that it wasn’t because I was faulty or deficient

What we shared was not just about that anyway

But it was part of it

And now it’s all different

There’s a wall, which I know has to be there

A carefully regulated distance must be kept at all times

Not just physically, emotionally too

And I miss sharing that intimacy with you

On all levels

I miss knowing you want to let me near you

And even now, when I see you

It still sometimes feels

As if you’re this huge carrot dangling in front of me

I don’t usually like carrots

But sometimes I wish

I could take one more bite of you

Judi Reed, 2012