Friday, 28 December 2012

Quote for the night...

‘You can only ever create a false reality if you build it on a foundation of coercion, manipulation and lies.’

- Judi Reed, 2012

Thursday, 20 December 2012

Quote for the day...

'Make the object of your affection, yourself, first.'

- Judi Reed, 2012

Saturday, 15 December 2012

Thought for the day...

‘I’m too busy dealing with the realities to be able to start talking hypotheticals right now’

- Judi Reed, 2012

Wednesday, 28 November 2012

Quote of the day...

‘Does he really love you? Yes, he loves some parts of you, but what of all those parts of you he keeps asking you to change? What of all those parts of your character he incessantly, and relentlessly, attacks and criticizes? Is that the definition of love you want to live your life by?’

- Anonymous, 2012.

Friday, 2 November 2012

Opinion of the day...

'I don't like sex toys that look like cocks. Cocks are cocks and toys are toys. Sure they can both do lovely things, but in very different ways.'

- Anonymous, 2012

Thursday, 27 September 2012

Quote for the day...

'Sometimes you just need a good old fashioned fuck...'

- Anonymous, 2012

Monday, 24 September 2012

Dilemma of the day....

What do you do when the control switch on one of your favourite vibrators gets stuck, but its not stuck on your favourite setting...?

It's a tricky one...

- Anonymous, 2012

Tuesday, 28 August 2012

Two paths (poetry)

Suddenly appear

I mean really what are the chances?
Quite good as it appears in my case

I’ve become so accustomed to my barren landscape
It has been my home
I’ve allowed myself to wander
The dunes of my mind
For perhaps too long

Yes, I found
And drank thirstily
At the oasis within myself
On my journey
And it revived me
And it was good

But once revived
Not one path, but two
Suddenly appeared

Each one offers riches to my soul
But in vastly different ways
Each one connects with parts of me
That I want to be touched.

But, in such very different ways
Or perhaps not
Maybe the two paths can converge
Maybe they will meet
Maybe I can have both?
Is that greedy?

Maybe I can have both
Maybe they actually can converge
I hope
Maybe the richness
That that would bring,
Does truly exist

And my trek
Across the barren sands
Has been about
Taking me there

- Judi Reed, 2012

Monday, 28 May 2012

Did you know...

that 'Shakta, one of the three most important mainstream forms of Hinduism, is centered on the belief that the creative power of the universe is embodied in female genitalia.'

(The Story of V: A natural history of female sexuality, Catherine Blackerledge, pp 44)

Thursday, 17 May 2012

One more bite? (poetry)

I miss the feel of your skin against mine
The way you used to whisper my name
When we were fucking

I miss the sounds you would make
When I was touching you
Or when you were inside me

And I miss the filthy text conversation
Always a promise of things to come
Made me smile through the day, the perfect foreplay

I miss the conversations we used to share
Intellect against intellect
A different type of stimulation altogether...

I remember when you told me
You couldn’t be with me that way anymore
And I don’t miss the way that made me feel

You showed me the respect of explaining why
Wrong time, space, and place
I understood intellectually, emotionally, that took longer

I know you weren’t just making excuses
And you weren’t just fucking me around
I believe you that it wasn’t because I was faulty or deficient

What we shared was not just about that anyway
But it was part of it
And now it’s all different

There’s a wall, which I know has to be there
A carefully regulated distance must be kept at all times
Not just physically, emotionally too

And I miss sharing that intimacy with you
On all levels
I miss knowing you want to let me near you

And even now, when I see you
It still sometimes feels
As if you’re this huge carrot dangling in front of me

I don’t usually like carrots
But sometimes I wish
I could take one more bite of you

Judi Reed, 2012